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i think hes hinting...
Ok, theres this guy. Hes my brothers friend and also mine. I think hes hinting around to us dating, but i can never be sure. Sure, i mean, i like him and all. And he keeps telling me personal shit about him like where he got 'deflowered' and hes always like "we have a lot in common. So far its 'SI <code im not tellin ya what it is> Music interests, and..(a bunch of shit) and he has to ask me out, but hes always been kind of..insecure so i think he might want me to ask him buut i dont know! is he hinting around to us goin out or something?!?! HELP ME
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First you should decide if you are interested in dating this guy. (I'm assuming you are interested since you sent in the question.) So, you are interested in him and he certainly seems to be sending signals that he's interested also. If you are already friends, then perhaps the best solution is just to do what friends do so easily... just talk about it. For example, the next time he mentions that you two have so much in common, you could say... "hmmmm, well maybe we should date each other", as if the thought just occurred to you. If he's interested, but just a little shy, it might be just the nudge he needs. If he is not interested and looks at you like you're crazy, or worse, starts acting weird and starts to pull away from you (emotionally), then you can just act as if it was just a passing thought, a moment of temporary insanity and move on from there. It might seem like playing a bit of a game, but as important as it is to "go for" what we want, it's also not a bad idea to protect ourselves from humiliation at the same time. Best of luck to you.
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If he is trying so hard to let you know what you have in common and how great you would be together, he probably wants to go out with you. If you like him, go for it! And if you're nervous, try asking him just to go out for pizza sometime, and then you can deal with the bf/gf thing later. That's bigger stuff.
Hope I helped!
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IT sounds like hes hinting that he wants to go out and that he likes yoU! you should tell him you like hIM and maybe that will make him feel like he wont get rejected and make him feel OKAy in askin Yah oUT!
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if i were you i would hint around at liking him. like if you like him you can hint around at liking him or like write him a letter telling him. that is what i do when i like a guy and i think he likes me to. i usually write him a letter and we usually end up dating. hope i helped **tink**
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Yeah, it sounds that he is definitely hinting at you and wants a relationship. Maybe he's just too shy to ask you out or just doesn't know how? So just make them move and ask him out girl! Hope I helped and good luck :)
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