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lunch i guess...
Ok, this may seem like a pathetic question, but I really don't know what to do.
Well, I started talking to this guy in one of my classes, and he's pretty cool. So I ate lunch with him (because I didn't know anyone else in that lunch). And so I was eating with him and all his friends. Then today, (and a little yesterday...its the second day of school)him, and some of his friends started to hit on me, and try to flirt with me, and wink at me and all that stuff. And it's making me feel really uncomfortable. But, I don't know how to get away from their table now, because I think that they think I'm going to keep sitting with them. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but I also don't like feeling uncomfortable like that. What should I do?? Please help.
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You should just tell him that u feel uncomfortable in that position, and to either knock it off, or that u wont sit with him anymore.
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Lol just wink back at them. If they ask u out just shoot them down. Then they wont wink anymore. lol
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Then don't sit there tomorrow. Ask you guy friend to sit with you somewhere else. They are just trying to get rid of you anyway. They know they are making you feel uncomfortable. At least they are only doing it at lunch.
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well talk to the guy alone and tell then of give then a note or tell your friend to talk to then. He will most likely help because he is your friends and all.
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try to find someone else to sit with. and if you don't want to hurt their feelings, you could bring your friends to eat with you at their table, so at least you have someone there that you feel comfortable with. if you really don't like they flirting with you, just ignore them when they do it. turn to someone else and start a conversation and just be kind of...standoff-ish to them. they should get the hint and will eventually get tired of not getting a reaction from you. if it still gets worse, tell them to stop...if they're worth being friends with, they'll respect you. good luck and dont worry....its only the second day so things will get better!
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