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ok well Im 13/f and i have a bf and we have been going out for a while and i really like....so on saturday i went over to my friends house and she has this brother and he likes me alot and i like him but i still like my bf....what should i do should i break with bf...or not tell him anything and just stay with...help plz...ill rate high...
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You are obviously in a situation right now where you have feelings for both guys. And since you have a boyfriend that makes matters worse. You should figure out what kind of guy you'd what. I know you already have a boyfriend, but what are some things a guy would need to have that you would like? And also if you ask yourself a lot of questions about both guys that will help. For instance who makes you smile the most? Who makes you laugh the most? Who are you more comfortable with? Who understands you better? Who seems to give you the same kind of love that you show them? Who have you known longer? Spending time with each one and getting to know them more will help as well. Your boyfriend might get concerned with this though. I would take time and really, really, really pay attention to how they act. And when you know them well, you can make a list of things you like and dislike. And I am assuming you want some guy who has a bunch of great qualities. But you do have to make a decision no matter what. And that's really tough to do. I really can't tell you who to pick because you know boht of these guys and I don't. And also you know what you lookf or in a guy. But I would take a lot of time to think it over and pick the best guy you think is for you.If you are unhappy and question another guy over your boyfriend all of the time and stay with him and never tell him you will be unhappy. But if you are in a good relationship right now and you are happy that's all that matters. You want to be happy. And another question to ask yourself is " Why do I have feelings for another guy, and not just my boyfriend?" Make sure you really like your boyfriend a lot. It's just the same as having a guy like another girl. You want his full attention on you and no other girl, that's probably what he wants from you too. But if you constantly have to think about someone else...that could lead into some fighting later on. So just be aware of what you want and what you have now. Honestly, I hope you figure out something that is right for you! Good luck with everything sweetie! Love Always, Mandee
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