Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. I don't know if sending that letter was rash or not. The thought that he'll never talk to me again also makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LaLa34lismchle answered Sunday August 29 2004, 3:19 pm: if u still like him u could try talking to him aboutit and say that u atleast want to try and be friends and then maybe if u get to kno him again u can see if u still like him or dont ....if u do u should just take things slow and make sure u can trust him before things get too serious if u cant get his trust then dont try to make things work because without trust u cant have nething. i think u should talk to him again because it might u not like him anymore and realize hes a jerk or sumthing or if u talk to him u guys might be able to work something out.. good luck [ LaLa34lismchle's advice column | Ask LaLa34lismchle A Question ]
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