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Hey its me mandy again. Chris came back yesterday, and i dont know things just arent the same between us. I mean when i first got to his house it was perfect he couldnt stop hugging me he like dropped everything and ran to me, but it seemed as the day went on he was very distant, and his mom pulled me aside and shes like mandy do you notice anything different and im like yeah hes not chris anymore shes like yeah i know she said that out of everyone of his freinds she knew i would notice it. I mean i like the old chris the goof off always laughing chris now hes disiplined hes all proper and he barley cracks a smile anymore. This military thing really changed him and i hate it. And last night i mean i dunno it just didnt feel the same the most we did was kiss and it wasnt even makin out it was just pecks here and there. He didnt even see me as i left to go home hes like yeah ok bye ill call u tonight. That was it. And when we were on the phone last night he asked me if i liked the new him and i said no b/c your different and when he asked how the phone went dead b/c we had a really big storm. When he called back he just switched the subject. I mean i know he still cares b/c he wanted to beat the shit outta michael for giving me all these bruises and stuff and when i went to go have a ciggerett he stopped me hes like hell no am i gonna let my girl start on this. I dont know i mean i know his change is good for him b/c hes getting his life together and i wouldnt wanna ruin that for him but at the same time im not happy anymore. Iv been crying all night and im in tears right now, and i hate how everything just changed with him. He thinks im the one who changed and im not im still me, and ugh i dont know what to so he only has 3 more days out here and hes doing shit with family tonight so i dought ill see him till around 8 tongight, i guess ill see how things go tonight but till then what should i do i mean i do still really love him its just this whole change thing im not used to, so can u please help me?
Thanks
Mandy
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well you said that when you guys were on the phone, the phone cut out right before you had the chance to answer to him. next time you guys see each other or talk on the phone, tell him that you want to talk to him about something. tell him that you're glad that the military school is helping him out and all, but you don't like how he acts all seriouse all the time. and then basically tell him the events on where he was being seriouse. like when he barely made out with you or when you left all he said was ok bye i'll call you later. You need to let him know how you feel about this new change. basically just tell him what you told me. after you tell him everything you'll prolly feel better that you got that off your chest, and you guys can hopefully work something out:-) If any problems occur or nething happens then let me know~ best wishes to ya hun!!
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