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ok here is my problem. i have 2 bf's i know its wrong and i dont know what i was thinking when i hooked up with the other one. see i had been dating my bf of 2 years now we can call him mike when we both got invited to this party and it was supposed to be the party of the year! unfotunatly mike was gonna be on vacation with his family this weekend. i didnt wanna go without him but he ensured me that i would have a great time. so i went and i got really drunk. i didnt mean to but i hooked up with this guy .. lets call him pete and hes kinda a pyscho! i think that i am pregnant but i dont know whose baby it is. both of them know about it but mike doesnt know about pete and pete threatened to kill me if i didnt claim it was his baby and dump mike. idk what to do i am sooo confused and i am only 14 yrs old! (i hang out with a lot of older kids) PLEASE HELP ME!
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alright...first of all DONT DRINK EVER AGAIN. wait till youre 21. as far as the baby goes, theres no way around letting your parents know. someone (them) has to drive you to the doctor to get the paternity test (i dont know if mike could since i dont know how old he is, and ill just tell you know dont ever come in contact with pete again), and your mom & dad are gonna start to notice when your stomach starts growing to hold the kid. its better to get it out of the way know so in 7/8/9 months from now its not like "okay mom and dad, im having a baby!" when its obvious. once you find out who the father is you gotta talk it over with him and his parents and explore all of your options. everyone involved needs to know. secondly, you need to tell someone about pete. if hes threatening to kill you, thats not good, and you need to tell the police immediately. things will be much worse if mike isnt the father and pete is. teen pregnancy isnt something rare, but you gotta use the right steps to make it work. until you talk to your parents and the police, dont talk to pete again. hopefully he doesnt know your adress or phone number. i hope everything goes well...
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