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letting down
Hi my names Jess and i have this friend thats really annoying she thinks were the best of friends i dont want to be friends with her but i dont want to make it sound mean how do i let her down easy?
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uhm well let me think- you could tell her nicely just be like 'im sorry but i dont think our friendship is working' is she asks why just be like 'i dont want to be mean or anything but you can get annoying' who knows you might be helping her out in the future- xox Anna
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well every ones need a frineds. maybe you will reget it.. maybe you ask her have some time apart or something... becouse i have freind she bug me so much talking bout her other friend and her bf and bout her.. we haventseen eather since june.. she never call me maybe becose i good goddy i not am she well dk. thing is maybe just talk to her and tell her you llikke meeeet other friends maybe some day she nnedd someone talk to she ask you..
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Amanda
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ok first of all it might break her heart but u dont want to pretend much longer! just say listen i enjoyed being friends with you but i dont think its gonna work because ure starting to be kinda annoying! thats what i would say good luck!
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Hey I totally understand what your going through beCause I have a friend that thinks too and she is driving me insane!
Okay first of all do not do what I did. Don't just ignore her and not speak to her because trust me that is not a good idea. I did that adn I still haven't called her back... I think I will when I get done here.... Anyways TO the advice.
I think you should tell her, Its not very nice to her or you to pretend. Just tell her that she is a great friend but you don't think its fair to her to have a friend that doesn't really like her. tell her that maybe she can find a better friend than you and that your really sorry to hurt her feelings but you had to tell her.
No matter what I write its going to sound a bit mean. Sorry I couldn't be of more help.'
Advice~gurl
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Just tell her straight up that you don't want to be friends with her. You don't have to give her a reason. Or, just don't take her calls, if she has AIM or whatever, don't accept IM's or just tell her your busy. Good luck..
-xXoBrianna
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well really theres no way to make it easy. But when she talks to you dont talk back. Ignore her for a while, ignore IMs, dont take calls, and when she talks to you kinda nod and walk away. Just whatever you do dont be mean. This girl might not have many friends and she might feel bad, so maybe getting rid of her isnt the best idea, try like helping her. Just say well people dont always like it when you do this, but its not a big deal. And you can list a trait you have thats not so lovely so she doesnt feel like an idiot. Whatever you do, dont hurt the poor girls feelings. good luck
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4 sumthin like this ther really isnt an easy way the truth hurt but its always 4 the best of both people. just tell her how u feel
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I would just start avoiding her, when she wants to hang out tell her your busy, that way its not mean.
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