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ok well i went out with this guy for like a year, but the down part were went out off and on, like we broke up 10 times...stupid i no....but like every time i talk to him, i start to like him again, but i dont want to go back out....i dunno what to do...HELP!
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Well keep talking to him, but just try and be friends think of all those times you broke up, dont let him become an enemy just let him be a close friend, look for other guys there are plenty of them out there, he just wasnt the one for you, you'll find a new one :-)
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oh that happened to me! it was a period of about 6 months though... after a while he just got on my nerves and i told him i didn't ever want to see him again and i caught him cheating on me. just try not to talk to him that much look around and find other guys that are really cute and start to flirt a little bit, hang out with friends, go to the mall check out guys! it'll get your mind off this other guy
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I know how you feel... I dated my ex off and on for 2 years.. and everytime I see him.. or talk to him.. I fall in love with him all over again.. and I dont want to be with him.. but... you feel this way because you cared deeply for this guy.. and you cant forget someone who you loved and cared for... There will always be a part of him that is with you. But I really do know how you feel..I hope I helped.. If ya need anything. Drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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I had the same problem..the best thing to do is (unless you guys are like really good friends) is just to stop talking to him in general. It sounds bad, but it helps a lot. Like on IM, even when i'd see his screen name i would get feelings again. So yeah i just blocked him and basically forgot about him. If you are good friends with him or want to be, just try to forget about him. Maybe look for a new boyfriend or something. Hope i helped!
xoxo
ali
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If you don't want to go out with im again that the easiest thing to do is not talk to him. If you say that you start liking him everytime you guys talk, then maybe thats the best thing for you (not talking at all). My philosophy is that ex's are ex's for a reason and that there is a reason that you guys arent together anymore and that it didnt work in the first place. the obvious answer here is to leave the situation go and not talk to him! *Melissa*
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well if u kno hes not the guy for u then try to b good friends n if u say that every tyme u talk to him then juss dont i kno it sounds bad but if u really dont want to go out with this guy then dont juss dnt tlk anymore..
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Don't talk to him foR a while.. it may seem cheesy oR dumb, but it ALWAYS helps me!! And the best way to get oveR someone is to find a new infatuation.. so give that a whiRl. Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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