How can you give yoursel fan orgasm? Well, it's different, with differnt' people. Some people only come with internal stimulation, some only come with extenal stimulation.
If you really want to give yourself an orgasm, and you haven't learned how to do it, then just experiment. Try using a dildo, or fingering yourself. Try rubbing your clit. You really can't listen to everyone else, because each person feels different, and they will be stimlulated by different experiences. I would suggest searching online for "masturbation techniques" I know you might come up with a lot of porn site, but just bypass those and find the informational site. A lot of info site on here can help you come up with techniques to help you pleasure yourself. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
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