we're girls and we're 14.. me and my best friend are in a HUGE fight! and i dont even care why we were fighting in the first place!! but shes really mad and keeps bringing up things from the past and things that dont have anything to do with whats happening! and she got my other friend mad at me too!! what should i do?
LoViny0ux914 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 4:26 pm: omg i hate tht!! thts the worste! tell her shes being immature...if she didnt feel threatened by you she wouldnt feel like she had 2 turn ur friends against you! wen she brings up stuff frm the past jus cut her off n say "ok u kno wut..tht happened a long time ago, focus on wuts happening right now" n then she'll prly jus be quiet. tell ur other friend [the 1 who was turned against you] tht the fight is between u n this other girl, so she should stay out of it n not be mad at you for no reason. jus give the other girl some time to cool off n tlk 2 her rationally n make her lsiten 2 u. gl hun!! [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
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