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shy kisser
ok im im a guy and im 14 and im close 2 my first kiss. i wanna do it but ifi do it it will b at amovie and i on want people 2 c me weni kiss cuz i ge real shy and then i get nervous and then i start 2 stutter:( wat can i do 2 make myself more comfortable?
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First, don't worry about your stuttering. You're going to be in a movie theatre, and people will just tell you to be quiet if you open your mouth, anyway.
Next, why does your kiss have to be in a movie theatre? Why not after the movie is over?
If the movie theatre is definitely the place for you, then I'd suggest the following. Don't go on the opening night of a big movie - more people will be there. Go to an earlier showing if possible, as more people will be at later movies. Also, choose where you sit carefully - somewhere near the back, away from groups of people. If you have to sit by anyone, sit a few rows BEHIND people who look like they really want to see the movie...they won't be looking around to see what else is going on.
Good luck.
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Alright just lighten up and dont plan on the whole date just to try kiss the girl. I sometimes get a little nervous myself when i want to kiss a cute girl for the first time. Alot of girls love public affection. Kiss her when she will least expect it...she will love it
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well do what u think is right just make the 1st move if it works if it dont it dont there are other gurls out there.
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just close your eyes and act like no one is there and do it. dont think about what you are doing, if you do you are gonna chicken out, so just do it anddont think about. once you do it once, you will want to againa and again and become more and more comfortable.
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:D It's okay. Really it is. Calm down. I have one suggestion though if you don't want to be seen in the movie theatre, go to the back of the theatre. Top row...all the way down. NO ONE will see you. Trust me, especially if you go to a good movie. And here's another great thing. When you DO sit in the back, the girl knows what's coming. She's going to expect it. So, if she acts like she doesn't want to sit there...then it's probably because she doesn't want to do it in that setting, or she doesn't want to kiss you (which isn't likely) So if she smiles...or even just agrees with you...she wants it. And trust me, you'll be comfortable then. ;)
-Becoming un-shy takes some work. This you will never really "grow" out of, you're just going to have to work harder than some people. Once you become more comfortable with the girl you are around...things will eventually get better. Promise. You'll bring out your true self with her, and if you don't...ask yourself why you're with her (cheesey/lame/corny) But true. -<3- Mere
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