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Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 4:25 pm

okay well i haven't had the best of life and everything. ive done alot of bad and stupid things and i thought that i "made myself better" or watever. and i was sayinghow im gonna do so good in high school since i fucked off in middle school. but i know alot of people there and i know im gonna some how fuck off agian and all i wanna do is at least make it through high skool. ya know. and i know that you all will say then just go to class and do your work and blah blah blah but everything i do or have done its like someone else is making and i have no say in it.ya know. and i don't want to go back into my bad habits agian although i think i already have a little kinda. but can anyone please help me. there is just so much shit going on in my life i just can't think i just do wat i think of first and sometimes its not good. but im trying really hard to be good. and i don't wanna tell my parents cuz theh might think of other things and its so hard for me to not do anything bad but yet i kinda got no choice cuz if i get the cops called on me one more time they said they don't care how big or even little it it there not gonna give me no more warnings or fines/tickets ro watever there just gonna errest me. but its like i don't care anymore wat those pigs do. can you please help me. i would probably help if i told you about my life and wat i have done and my family but it would be kinda long cuz i don't know how to make things short(as you can tell) and this is probably long enuff anyways... so please help me....

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blue_mist808 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:17 pm:
hey! wow tough stuff. just remember the advantages of staying on track and think about your future! i know you probalbly do but you know think about if you plan on having kids when you're older, you wanna have some really good stuff about your life to tell them! and then they can also learn from your mistakes and then see how you turned around. your friends can learn from you too! i have a friend, my best friend since i was 3, and she's in the same situation and right now she's just keeping herself surrounded by good people and away from bad situations. hope this helps! <333

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cupidzxarr0w answered Monday August 9 2004, 5:33 pm:
i kno wha yu`r goin thro nd shit cuz suttin like that was wid me.. nd all yu can do is make new friends... put ya mind to it... if yu kno its bad then jus dun do it... think b4 yu do tha action... cuz ive g0tten in sum really fcuked up situations.. nd high sko0l is mad different then middle sko0l... jus g0 to skool do wha ya g0tta do.. dun worrii bout wha other ppl do cuz they aint gonna get yu anywhurr in lyfe...yu are... nd im sure if ya put ur mind to it yu can do it... dun sweat it

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alisonmarie answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:57 pm:
It sounds like you just want to have control over something. Getting through high school seems important to you, but you've got to make it about you and not about other people.

Maybe that means deciding to excel in just one area - maybe you really love math, or english, or science. Maybe you have an extra-curricular thing you want to do - guitar, sports, writing.

I think you need to find something that could be really important to you, and then you ned to figure out how to focus. Make life about your choices - YOU want to do well in high school, so do it. You're the person you have to live with for the rest of your life - eventually your parents won't be there telling you what to do. Why not start making strong decisions now?

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