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I like this boy Their is this boy he's cute and all but he's 20 and their is this other boy that is 17 i don't know which one to go out with because the 20 year old is mad nice and shit and dosn't get into trouble with the cops but the 17 year old just got out of jkail today the 9th and i don't know they both smoke weed they both drink but the 20 year old dosn't smoke cigrattes and the 17 year old does. Melssia you gotta help me.
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Hey..How old are you? Sounds like your somewhere around my age. Neither of these relationships seem like your parents would approve of, but i wont tell you to forget them because you like both of them, and i know what its like to like someone your parents wont approve of.
Back to your question..both have their negatives..and you said the 20 yr old was nice..which is good. Whats good about the 17 yr old? Maybe you can make a list of positives and negatives about each guy..maybe that will help you make a decision. I personally dont know the guys myself..so its kinda hard for me to tell you which one to choose. Also think about which one would treat you the best..would one of them just "use" you or hurt you? Your friends know these guys better than i do..so maybe ask them what they think.
This is only my opinion..but I personally would try and find a better guy..who is younger and doesnt smoke weed or did jail time. But thats only my opinion..if you really are attracted to these guys then make a list and pick one!
This is a tough situation..I wish you luck! Write back with more details if you want..i`ll be happy to help more! :)
-Melissa ]
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