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Long time, no see...
School is getting ready to start up again, and I don't think there will ever be a chance for me and that 4-year guy...I think I might be over him, though it saddens me that we never became anything.
I have a boyfriend now...age gap is a little over 2 years. I met him on the net and within the week we were going out...its almost 1 1/2 months now, I believe. He's so much better than Mr. 4, I think. Although I won't get to see him in classes...
But he has some funky schedule and if I have 1st lunch he can come to visit me at school...but...I feel so mean...I feel as if I will be embarassed if he comes and sits with me, and I don't know why! And it's making me feel bad...
I don't know why I feel this way. This is a serious relationship in my opinion, although not the best time for one, as this is my first relationship in a couple of years. We've already fought a couple times and it's only been...1 and a half months?
I don't know why I feel this way...maybe because I'm afraid what my friends will think of him? I don't know why I care about that either...
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Sounds like you hit it right on the head. It would seem the biggest part of your problem IS what your friends may think. Right now, your friends compose the largest part of your social and personal circle. To have something sit not so well with them can possibly do damage to more than just your relationship with him. Speaking of which, you say you have fought a couple of times already in one and a half months. Guess what....you're behind schedule, lol. Usually, the infatuation phase wears a little thin before then and then the REAL people involved come out, thus the arguments. I think you may be making a bigger deal of it because you're looking for a reason to head off as what you see as an inevitable embarrasment-fest. If you enjoy this guy, let things take their course. i bet you'll find that your friends care less about his age than you think they will. And who says they have to know his age in the first place. Let go, and let yourself be a little happier.
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