my friend who i have known for 6 years just told me that he is in love wit me.. actually its something out of a love movie.. an something i have always wanted.. only i think i dont love him like he loves me.. i love him so much but i dont know if its as a friend or more.. an i cant figure out how to figure that out. PLus there is another problem - i am in love wit someone else.. or wait.. not in love. but i like someone else. a lot.. an i cant figure out if i should go wit my friend of 6 years an try the fairy tale life.. just for a while.. or wait on this other guy (i have been waitin on him to tell me how he feels for a while..i know he likes me but he keeps too much from me, ya know?!) But i need my heart to tell me who to go for an who i rly do love/like. but my heart just wont tell me.. plus another problem. the guy.. fairy tale guy.. best friends wit for 6 years now guy.. well one of my good friends like him..an she doesnt know that hes in love wit me. but he is gonna tell her but. even though im barely friends wit her an i have known him an been tight wit him longer.. ARgh i dunno.. help plz
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:26 pm: Lets start with the guy that you are unsure of how he feels. Don't wait on him. It sounds like hes stringing you along. As far as fairy tale guy, go for it. I have a guy friend who i have known for quite a while. I consider him my best friend. We have done our share of messing around and we even dated for a while. But we didnt want to ruin the friendship. It took us some time to realize it, but we werent ruining the friendship, we were making it stronger. We agreed to marry in 7 years if neither of us were married. Now i am with someone else and very unhappy because i realized how much i want to be with "My fairy tale guy" My point is, you know this guy. You know how he is and what hes about. Therefor there are no surprises and you know what to expect. Dont ever let a chance like this pass you by. It could be the best decision you ever make. [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
LEFTalone answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 4:54 am: thats really hard. if i were you i would just wait it out and see if this guy you like alot comes through for you in the next one to 2 weeks and if he doesnt then you should give your fairy tale boy a try, it couldnt hurt. as for your other friend that likes your fairy tale boy she has to know that he doesnt like her like that and she'll have to get over that. tell me how things work out.
much <3.
--later.! [ LEFTalone's advice column | Ask LEFTalone A Question ]
Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:34 am: i think u needa try the guy that loves u...becuz he was honest and told u how he felt...the other guy didnt...who would u rather want..a person that will tell u things probably straight up bout his feelings...or someone that holds things back n u havet to guess every minute????...and if u arent good friends wif that girl...why would it matter...he loves u...not her... [ Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX's advice column | Ask Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX A Question ]
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