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ok well me and my boyfriend were talking about some funny stuff (but there were some dirty parts too about what we would do when i saw him **he lives kinda far away**) but yea anywayz so i emailed them to myself to save them...and one day i went to watch some band and i left my aol on so my mom got on and she read my emails, so now im by my friends house and was checking them and they said they were read already so im not quite sure she did...but im pretty positive..im so scared i might get in trouble or of what she'l do or think about me, or that she wont trust me anymore and think im some kind of slut..what should i do?
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Politely ask ur mom if she read ur e-mail and if she said yes ask her why she invaded ur privacy... tell her u would never do that to her and u hope that she would never do it to u either!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!! ~Chelsea~
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Well, if you want to know for sure, just ask her if she read your email. If she did, and even if she's upset about whatever she read, she's probably feeling more than a little rotten about reading your private words to your boyfriend and you'll both feel better for having it out in the open. You can stop worrying about whether or not she read your email and if she did, she can get it off her chest.
Now, if she did, try to talk to her about it without getting angry and yelling. And I don't think anybody's mother ever really thinks bad things about their daughter, even if they really deserve it. I've done some really questionable things, and my mother has always stood by me, and we get along well because of it. So she might not be thrilled about whatever you wrote to your boyfriend (or what you're doing with him), but you're still her daughter and she loves you.
So, to sum up: Ask her whether or not she did read your email. If she did, don't blow up at her, but just talk to her about it as reasonably as you can. And always, always close your email programs. Ok?
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just straight up ask her if she read them..she has no right to read your stuff its not her business..and your not a slut you were talking to your b/f i guess you gotta just talk to her
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Does she know when you had these conversations? If not, just tell her you had a friend over and ya'll were kidding around w/ him. But only if she asks about it....Write back if you need anymore advice! ((aLLy))
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If your does read something like it, the best thing to do...blame it on someone else. Say it was a friend who doesn't have the internet and was talking to their boyfriend at your house, and you couldn't IMAGINE of saying that sort of thing. But make sure the friend isn't a close one, maybe a neighbor or soemthing..hopefully she wouldn't go say anything to his mom. After that, start yelling at her for even thinking you could wrtie stuff lke that and how dissapointed you are that she doesn't trust you and you thought you had her trust ect. And of course then you can go for the whole "invasion of privacy act" that's always a good one too. Next time don't forget to delete your e-mail..if you want to save it.. save it in your computer somewhere where your mom would never check.
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