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Well here's the deal, Ive known this guy for about a year now maybe longer. I really like him but he's stuck on this other chick. The girl has told him that she only wants to be friends and nothing more, but he is still hung up on her. Everyone has told this boy I like him, hell I've told him. He still refuses to take the relationship to another level. What do I do? Do I wait a bit longer to see if he comes around or do I more on to the other boys that I can get no problems or questions asked? Please Help!! I want to be happy!
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Well... I've been in this situation a lot, and it's not fun at all! You have been doing the right thing about telling him you like him..so good job on that. It's good that you are keeping your sights on him, but you're not being fair to yourself here. Push him aside for awhile, and focus on your happiness only for a couple days. Go out somewhere and see what other guys are like. Who knows, you might end up finding someone better then him. See, by only focusing on him and waiting till he comes around, who knows how many great opportunity with other guys you are forcing away. So lay low with this guy for awhile, and see what the other options are. Still be friends with this guy, and when he sees that you are with different guys, he will realize how incredibly awesome you are! He will so want you then, but it may be too late for him though. You could have someone new and completely cool. So... then it will be his loss! Don't sell yourself short. Go out and meet new guys. You are young and fun so go show the world and have fun with the dudes!!
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