Well.. my name is Diane. I have dirty blonde hair with some red in it. I'm about 5'4" and I have green eyes. I like to figure skate and play hockey. During the summer I play softball, and this season my team, the Blue Sox, took first! Way to go ladies. I like to hang out with my friends, be on the ice, shop, sleep, talk on the phone and internet, watch tv, go to movies, and pretty much do whatever is fun! People say I give really good advice, so I decided to make one of these things. I also like to read and write poetry.
Website: Xanga
E-mail: allstaricesk8er@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wichita, KS
Occupation: Freshman at Maize High
Age: 15
AIM: DaRe2DrEaM5889
Yahoo: allstariceskater2002
MSN: allstaricesk8er@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 28, 2004
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i like this guy but we've talked a little bit but i can't seem to really talk to him like in a conversation but i need to no how to talk to him but be casual about it?
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It's good that you like him. That means you have a goal in mind.. now all you have to do is fullfill it! It's also good that you have talked to him a little bit, because it shows that you have courage, which is always a plus. So, now... all there is left to do is go in for the kill and have a great conversation with him. Start off by asking how he is doing, then move onto more person subjects, like what he likes to do, his hobbies and interests, his family, school, and his friends. Find out what he likes and try and learn more about him. The more you know and the more he knows, the easier it will be for you two to have a conversation! Remember: do not force him into any questions that you would not like to answer yourself. Avoid touchy subjects like politics and religion to begin with, but you will gradually become more comfortable around this person then you will be able to talk about anything! Good luck and e-mail if you have anymore questions!
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Well here's the deal, Ive known this guy for about a year now maybe longer. I really like him but he's stuck on this other chick. The girl has told him that she only wants to be friends and nothing more, but he is still hung up on her. Everyone has told this boy I like him, hell I've told him. He still refuses to take the relationship to another level. What do I do? Do I wait a bit longer to see if he comes around or do I more on to the other boys that I can get no problems or questions asked? Please Help!! I want to be happy! (link)
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Well... I've been in this situation a lot, and it's not fun at all! You have been doing the right thing about telling him you like him..so good job on that. It's good that you are keeping your sights on him, but you're not being fair to yourself here. Push him aside for awhile, and focus on your happiness only for a couple days. Go out somewhere and see what other guys are like. Who knows, you might end up finding someone better then him. See, by only focusing on him and waiting till he comes around, who knows how many great opportunity with other guys you are forcing away. So lay low with this guy for awhile, and see what the other options are. Still be friends with this guy, and when he sees that you are with different guys, he will realize how incredibly awesome you are! He will so want you then, but it may be too late for him though. You could have someone new and completely cool. So... then it will be his loss! Don't sell yourself short. Go out and meet new guys. You are young and fun so go show the world and have fun with the dudes!!
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im sooo scared hes going to hurt me i dont know what to do i like him so much and i have known him for like 2 years but i dunno what to do to get him to ask me out i just got your advise erlyer but like i can talk to him about anything ANYTHING i need more help plz help me (link)
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OK... you can not be scared. If you really like him then just forget the risk because if it is really love then it is worth it all. If you can talk to him about anything... then just tell him exactly how you feel. You never know, he could be feeling the exact same thing but he is just too afraid to tell you because he is afraid too that you might not like him back. If you need more help, feel free to IM me and then it will be quicker then this thing. DaRe2DrEaM5889 on AIM or MSN is allstaricesk8er@hotmail.com. Or you can continue using this, it makes no difference to me!! Hope that helps!
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Ok there is this guy that i have liked for a while and we have been dating for a couple of weeks but he wont ask me to b his girlfriend and i dunno how to talk to him about it i think hes scared ill hurt him or sumthing what do i do
sighned,
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Well... it's good that you've been going on dates with him to get to know him better. At this point, all you can do it get to know him better and soon enough he will realize that you aren't going to hurt him, and if you do, you wouldn't do it on purpose because you like him. Once you get to know him better, you'll be able to talk to him about anything and it won't be a problem at all to explain to him that you like him and that you will do your best to not hurt him. So.. just do your best to get to know him better, and the rest will come on it's own! GOOD LUCK!!
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when do you think its ok to have sex? (link)
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Ahhh... the question that everyone needs the answer to. But, I hate to say this... but the answer all depends upon you. It all depends on who you are, what you believe, and who the other person is. If you feel that you truly love the person so much that you would sacrafise your purity for them and know that you can never take back what you would have done, then you may be ready to have sex with them. For me though... since I plan, infisize on the PLAN, to stay pure till I get married because it says that in the bible and I believe, trust, and love God so I know he wants the best for me.. but of course, I never know what is going to happen.. because I have never actually been in love, so I don't know how I will react. But that's beside the point. The point is, the decision is up to you. You have to realize that people are going to call you things like slut, skank, whore.. ect. just because they don't understand what is really going on. I've seen it happen to some of my friends. But, if you feel that you are ready and you love the person and you think it's worth risking everything, then go for it. If you are sure about all of those things, then I think you are a pretty together girl and you can handle all of the struggles that sex brings. Hope that this helps. Feel free to ask more questions if you need to!!
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Hello, There is a guy that I know. He is four years older than me and he is really nice. But, He is going for the wrong girl. I mean this girl is not very, as you would say, "good" but I mean she isnt ALL bad. He doesn't understand what I am trying to get across. Please help me to help him.
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Helpless (link)
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Like I said earlier on a post, 4 years isn't all that bad, and it's good that he is really nice. Sometimes in life you just have to let people make their own mistakes to realize that they want something else out of life. If you just let him take this one and learn from it, maybe after he learns his lessons he will realize that YOU are the RIGHT girl for him. If what this wrong girl is doing isn't all that bad, let him learn for himself, but if it's something that could hurt or harm him in someway, yes, continue taking him away from it. When him and this wrong girl are over, he will realize how much you care for him because you tried to stop him from doing this because you were afraid he would get hurt. So.. just continue being friends with him, although it may cause you a lot of pain. Being friends with someone is better than nothing, and someday he will realize that this girl isn't the person for him... and Mrs. Right.... is right next door.
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I knew this guy named greg and I had a huge crush on him for like ever
And he never seemed to like me untill he was like 19 and i was 15 then he desides to call me and tell me hes in love with me I knew I still liked him but my parents would never aprove what do i do (link)
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Ok... well, first off. 4 year isn't that bad. I know it may seem like alot to parents right now, but my parents are 5 years apart. If you still like him, then go for it. If he truly loves you, he will understand that your parents don't approve of it, and he will do anything to gain their trust. Maybe the reason he didn't call you until he was 19 was because he was afraid that you didn't like him back. This thing between the two of you could be something great, since you've liked eachother for such a long time. So... I know this is bad, but it's the truth... screw your parents and follow your heart. It's your life to live, not theirs. Do what you want to do.
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