[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DaRe2DrEaM5889 answered Friday July 30 2004, 11:55 pm: Ahhh... the question that everyone needs the answer to. But, I hate to say this... but the answer all depends upon you. It all depends on who you are, what you believe, and who the other person is. If you feel that you truly love the person so much that you would sacrafise your purity for them and know that you can never take back what you would have done, then you may be ready to have sex with them. For me though... since I plan, infisize on the PLAN, to stay pure till I get married because it says that in the bible and I believe, trust, and love God so I know he wants the best for me.. but of course, I never know what is going to happen.. because I have never actually been in love, so I don't know how I will react. But that's beside the point. The point is, the decision is up to you. You have to realize that people are going to call you things like slut, skank, whore.. ect. just because they don't understand what is really going on. I've seen it happen to some of my friends. But, if you feel that you are ready and you love the person and you think it's worth risking everything, then go for it. If you are sure about all of those things, then I think you are a pretty together girl and you can handle all of the struggles that sex brings. Hope that this helps. Feel free to ask more questions if you need to!! [ DaRe2DrEaM5889's advice column | Ask DaRe2DrEaM5889 A Question ]
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