Hello, There is a guy that I know. He is four years older than me and he is really nice. But, He is going for the wrong girl. I mean this girl is not very, as you would say, "good" but I mean she isnt ALL bad. He doesn't understand what I am trying to get across. Please help me to help him.
signed,
Helpless
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DaRe2DrEaM5889 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:51 am: Like I said earlier on a post, 4 years isn't all that bad, and it's good that he is really nice. Sometimes in life you just have to let people make their own mistakes to realize that they want something else out of life. If you just let him take this one and learn from it, maybe after he learns his lessons he will realize that YOU are the RIGHT girl for him. If what this wrong girl is doing isn't all that bad, let him learn for himself, but if it's something that could hurt or harm him in someway, yes, continue taking him away from it. When him and this wrong girl are over, he will realize how much you care for him because you tried to stop him from doing this because you were afraid he would get hurt. So.. just continue being friends with him, although it may cause you a lot of pain. Being friends with someone is better than nothing, and someday he will realize that this girl isn't the person for him... and Mrs. Right.... is right next door. [ DaRe2DrEaM5889's advice column | Ask DaRe2DrEaM5889 A Question ]
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