ok so theres this guy who said he liked me and i was like totaly excited and ya no how it is so yea he asked me out but then was like were not going out and then was like we are so i just ignored him for the last 2 months and i just recently started talkin to him again and we've been talkin and well now he keeps say he loves me and i dont believe him cause of last time adn hes always saying this when hes at a friends house but he dose it at his too but hes more calm about it...i dont trust him and i really dont believe he likes me but some of my friends do! OH and also hes gone through all my friends well most of them saying he wants to "hang out" which i no means more cause of what was said to me by him...ugh i have no idea what to do and i dont want to talk to him about it cuase its like AHHHHHH lol what should i do!?!?!?!?!?
LilMia811 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 5:54 pm: Okay well if you really don't trust the guy then you don't need to be with him. But if you really think you should give him a chance, talk to him in person, not over the computer or phone, and ask him to be staight up with you about how he feels. Good Luck! :)
LuVnEmTxCoWbOyS7 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 4:55 pm: I would first say go for it with the guy but then you said he has been through all of your friends. That's a tough decision for you to make. As much as you don't want to talk to him about it, I really think you should because it's the only way you will know forsure what he's thinking. Ask him what the deal was with the first time ya'll were going out, why he always wants to hang out now, if he really means the "i love you"s.. stuff like that! Just let him know how you're feeling and what you think about all of this! In the end things will turn out for the best! Good luck and hope everything works out the way you want it too! [ LuVnEmTxCoWbOyS7's advice column | Ask LuVnEmTxCoWbOyS7 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday July 29 2004, 4:42 pm: BB,
This guy sounds really, really fickle - can't make up his mind.
(He also seems to be throwing the word "love" around, which - to me - is a BIG no-no.)
I would just give up on him if I were you. You're asking to get your heart broken if you remain stuck on him, and all he's doing is confusing you, right?
Don't talk to him about it if you don't want to - just forget about this guy. There are other guys out there who don't live to confuse...lol.
Hope everything works out!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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