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Question Posted Tuesday July 27 2004, 12:28 pm

I love this guy he loves me and we have been dating for a while but latley hes been selling drugs for his prohbation officer and up to now i've always gave him money if he needed it, and he knows that, he told me he would stop all of this afterhe was done with prohbation,i am there for him 100% but only because i love him, but at times i just want to tell ask him if he knows what he is doing. He has looked for a job all over the city and no one will take him because he has a bad record. I cant just up and leave him because of this because me and him has been really good friends for almost three years and we've been dating for like a year or so. Please tell me what i should do

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lip_glossxo answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 5:57 pm:
Hey, I have a very good friend who is in the same situation with the bad record and selling drugs. Help him look for a job, and just be there for him. Don't get involved with the selling or anything, but help him look for a job or let him know that if he stops selling you'll help him out til he gets back on his feet. He needs to start somewhere, so even if he gets a job at a small place for small pay, it's not selling drugs.<33

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Duckhunt123 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 4:25 pm:
u need to stop giving him money b/c that is how he buys his drug. and u need to talk to him about this if u dont he will be caught selling or buying drugs again. And if he keeps doing this he wont ever get a job. And his life will be ruined.

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LaDiixDeE4Ya answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 2:19 pm:
okay..if yu claim diz guy loves you as much as yu sai he does..den if yu simply tell him how yu feel he wuld stop and change his wayz. If not den girl yu gotta do wut yu gotta do..And datz leave him. Bc yu dont need a man like tht in yur life.Hope i helped ^_^

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reflektionofme answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 12:54 pm:
Support him with every GOOD thing he does. when he needs money tell him your out, you dont have any. Tell him how you really feel about the drugs and stuff. You dont like the drugs, you worry about him.. explain that to him and hopefully he will understand. Stay away from him when he is around drugs, you dont want to get in trouble too.
Talking about it, is a lot easier than doing it. Good luck.

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