Hey every1
My name is Espi! I live in Austin Texas and i love to help people out with there problems. I dont have a perfect life. every1 has problems of there own and its ok to talk about them with other ppl.
my favorite color is green and i like listening to rock and rap. When i grow up i want a mustang convertible. my sn is C L Akundi91 i-m me i love talking to ppl and i talk to anyone. I have brown hair and light brown eyes and im Indian! im 4'11 (kinda short for my age) im 13 and im in 8th grade.
Gender: Female
Location: Austin Texas
Occupation: school/wash cars
Age: 13
AIM: Clakundi91
Member Since: July 27, 2004
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Last Update: July 28, 2004
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K well there is this guy i like ALOT, he lives on my street and well he used to like me. he is 15 and im 13. Im moving in 3 days and everytime i ask him to hang out he doesnt want to. or he has something else. i dont know how to get his attention and i really want him to like me again. what should i do to get him to come here or him to invite me over. I know its maybe not as big of a problem as most ppls but well i never got a boy to lik me before and well this is one of my only chances.. how can i get him to like me in 3 days and to make him hang out with me today or tomorrow.?? PLEASE PLEASE HELP! (link)
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you should tell him ur moving in 3 days and see what he does
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umm this is kinda embarrassing. so im just gonna let it out...i always get a boner for like no reason..(im a guy)...ill just be sittin there and all of a sudden..ITS THERE! i dont like it. sometimes it can show. is this a problem? is it normal? im cinfused! >>ILL RATE (link)
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HAHA dont worry! im not a guy but i bet it is really embarrasing. its perfectly natural. I mean dont be embarrased it will go away and if you are really embarrased then u should just excuse urself from where ever and whatever ur doing go to the bathroom and just wait awhile so it will go away.
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well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
XOXOalexiaXOXO (link)
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Well this is actually really tough i've kinda been through the same thing. well what you should do is you should either call your bf or go to his house and litterally tell him everything that happened b/c nothing you did was wrong. Tell anthony that you have a bf and he needs to find some1 else. but what i say is well it'll be better to go to ur bf's house and tell him in person. try not to be scared or anything tell him the truth tell him you didnt do anything with anthony and you only love him (as in ur bf) and not anthony.
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well im going to this cheerleading class tonite hopefully all goes well but there all girls from the school im going to next year and i dont knwo anyone what should i do to make them except me or actually talk or be nice lol im really shy (link)
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well if your really shy its ok. Your probably not the only person. you can find some1 just as just stand by them act casual and randomly start a convo. you can say hi my name is___ whats urs? what school are you going to next year? or you could act like ur lookin for something and ppl will come help you.. hope i helped.. i dunno?
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Im depressed for different reasons. Everybody asks y im depressed but i don't want to tell anybody. I guess one reason is from a previous relationship, where my bf broke up w/ me b/c he can't call me. I really LOVED him but kept it to myself. It's starting to haunt me and Idk what to do. Another reason is b/c another guy that I liked who i thought liked me said that we'd be better as friends. It didn't really bother me till that night and has ever since. I really like him but yeah. I don't want anybody to know and I don't like complaining. When "Espi" said to write her in her colomn I just said ok. Hopefully she can help me!!!!! HELP!!! (link)
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Ok well first thing if you dont wanna tell any1 if your depressed then take it off ur profile and dont say yeah im really depressed. So wait, lemme get this straight your ex broke-up with you just because he cant call you? Ask him y he can't call you. And if you truley love him then you should ask to be him friend and maybe yall could hang out. I know what you mean by you REALLY love the guy, it is good to keep it to urself. Well you say its starting to haunt you right? Well what you could do is get yourself into some FUN and EXCITING(Lol) activities to get ur mind off him. Wait i dont get what ur saying, you said some other guy u liked wanted yall to be friends and it didnt bother...UNTIL WHAT NIGHT? i dunno if im helping here but i guess maybe if yall are friends he will get to know u better and better each day/ week / month or w/e u know? and maybe he will start liking u.
Like i said earlier if you dont want any1 to know you better take the depressed off ur pro.
and sometimes it helps to talk to close friends. thats what i do and they help me with lots of stuff. hope i helped if i didnt im sorry! RATE ME remember im duckhunt123 (it hides me.)
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I am VERY picky about what I eat... I won't eat most meats... only Peperoni on my pizza (if i have to) and hamburgers. I like junk food ALOT and I eat alot of it... I won't eat most foods other people eat. I have alot of problems when I stay the night with friends because I usually don't like what they are having for dinner.
I am about 5'3-5'4 and i only weigh about 135... it may sound like a lot .. but i have alot of muscle too...
What kinds of foods should I try eating so I will stay healthy?
Is there any way to make myself like more healthy foods? (link)
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You need to go around trying diff. types of vegetables.
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I love this guy he loves me and we have been dating for a while but latley hes been selling drugs for his prohbation officer and up to now i've always gave him money if he needed it, and he knows that, he told me he would stop all of this afterhe was done with prohbation,i am there for him 100% but only because i love him, but at times i just want to tell ask him if he knows what he is doing. He has looked for a job all over the city and no one will take him because he has a bad record. I cant just up and leave him because of this because me and him has been really good friends for almost three years and we've been dating for like a year or so. Please tell me what i should do (link)
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u need to stop giving him money b/c that is how he buys his drug. and u need to talk to him about this if u dont he will be caught selling or buying drugs again. And if he keeps doing this he wont ever get a job. And his life will be ruined.
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my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?
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Your gonna have to make new friends because obviouly they dont wanna talk to u.
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This guy that I really like, who likes me too is stationed in Iraq. I am just so worried for him! It scares me knowing he is out there. How can I calm my nerves and not think the worst will happen? (link)
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Think positive dont think negitative. Try to get into some activity, that will get ur mind off things.
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Can u get an orgasm while just being fingered? They other night i was being fingered by my boyfriend, and he asked me if I had just had an orgasm. I honestly don't know what an orgasm is or how to tell if i've had one...
Can someone please tell me how to tell if i've had one and how to tell when im having one? (link)
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go for a check up because u might have a disease and might be pregnant.
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im leaving town for about 2 weeks with my best friend and ive had a boyfriend for about 6 months and im gunna miss him so much while im gone what should i do before i leave with him to make sure we can make it through the 2 weeks without seeing eachother easily .. we havent really done anything to much we've made out and sbugggled and a lil bit more but nothing major give me some helppp please im leaving friday 7-30-04 (link)
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Well do you trust him? If you do then you can live with-out him for 2 weeks. If your scared he will do something with someone else then call him every now and then and check up on him.
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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD? (link)
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Yeah, you can because the rubber on the condom isnt always good.
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would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween??? (link)
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To be honest with you, it wont! I mean halloween is to be scary and "dress up" so no one will really care.
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