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ok...i LOVE my friend with all my heart and shes amazing i mean weve been bff for 6 years...im not mad at her cuz i no she has good intentions...but i mean like everytime i introduce her to sum1...she like takes them over....and im mad cuz im always there first for everything but i always just get erased...im the one who LOVES the kid for 2 years and wanted to go to a concert with him but i think hes starting to like her and she always just like takes over my friends....i cant talk to her about it cuz...idk im just not like that with myf riends theres no way ive tried sooooo hard but ive been crying all week cuz i never feel good enough anymore...what can i do to become prettier and better for everyone else???? please help!
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Dont ever ever EVER change yourself to be anything your not!!!! And what guys love to see is confidence! Be outgoing and assertive and make sure your confidence shines through!!
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first of all, don't think like that! don't EVER change yourself to be better or more perfect for sommeone else, EVER!!!! and second of all, i know EXACTLY how you feel. i have the same kinda situation. the thing is, you have to get over your fear and talk to her about it. but dont just bring it out randomly! like, if you're going to invite her to a guy, pretend his name is bob, and you really like bob, before you introduce her just be like "i really really like bob so i would appreciate it if you just acted casual around him" like, although he isn't, kind of act as though he's your property, but don't be a bitch about it. It sounds cheesey but it actually does work! just sit down and let EVERYTHING pour out... i did that a year ago with my friend and we're so good now
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It's not that you are not 'prettier and better'
and it shouldn't be for everyone else.
The problem from what I see is your confidence. Be assertive, throw away the shy act, or she will Always steal your friends. I had a friend like that as well, she was not very pretty and she pleanty of my boyfriends. It's all about who honestly believes they are better, and diserving of attention and care.
Good luck, and I suggest you overcome that fear of talking to your friends, it might do the relationship some good if you were honest with her. Keeping problems to yourself has always seemed like a dirty trick to me, becuase she can't fix it if she doesn't know it's bothering you.
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wow .. i totally know how u feel . like seriously .. this is something hard to conqour .. like my friend .. i love this girl soo fucking much and then like everytime we meet someone that i like or something they always end up likeing her .. but i dont know wwhy that is .. and liek its something that takes time to over come .. but trust me .. no everything is better because i know that ther is someone out ther for me and shiit .. so if u want u can IM me or osmething and talk to me about it - x0 ashley
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