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i've had a boyfriend for like a year now and its been rocky.. we've broke up got back together several times and we've hurt eachohter emotionally several times.. but ultimatly we are best friends and we really fell for eachother But we broke up recently and this time he's hanging out with some girl and she is nothing like him as in she smokes pot and cigarretes and he's tall and shes barely five feet.. its so weird and he kissed her the other night and told me bout it but he said he still loved me but hes sorta attracted to her. which crushed me! but i hadnt been the best girl friend so its wierd. well we are still sorta talking and hooking up and what not but i dont know if this is the right way to go or just end it. i love him and i'd do anything to make our relationship work and it's always been me messing up and now its him so i'm lost iono whether i should keeping doing things with him or just let it go ya know?
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ii kno what your talking about..because you love him, you dont wanna see him with another girl. but hooking up with him randomly isnt gonna make him forqet bout her if hes starting to like her now. you need to be completely honest with him and explain how going out with you would be better than him going for her since you guys have a past and it would be better basically your advertising yourself as the better candidate.. ii think tho if hes already moved on than you should too.. ii mean you guys will always be friends and stuff.. but maybe its time for you guys to find new people .. but also ii think you need him to get away from that girl that smokes pot cause trust me theres a lot of things that can get screwed up by him just hanging out with her. so the answer to your question is instead of wasting your time hooking up with him .. find someone for yourself and if things are truly meant to be with that other guy then you guys will come back to each other cause maybe now isnt the right time yano?
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