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I Feel Like the Third Wheel
I have two best friends. Let's say their names are Jill and Kate. Whenever I am going to get together with Jill she is always forgetting about our plans and then gets together with Kate. The other day this happened. I called Jill all day and she wasn't answering. I called her cell phone and she was shopping with Kate. She told me that tomorrow we could get together. I called "Kate's" today and talked to "Jill" and she said that she was leaving Kate's in an hour and that we could get together at her house. She never called me. I called her house and her dad said she wasn't home and I know she is with Kate. I am so sick of this. I cried for 2 hours yesterday. I was so mad! I love my friends so much, but they are always hurting me. I tell them how I feel and they consider it and then do it again. I need your advice. Please help me! I am so sick of it!
Signed,
Tired of Crying
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ok ik how this is and i think u should find a good time when you are with both your friends and talk to them calmly about it. tell them exactly what u just told me and explain how you feel like a third wheel. i think they would understand if they r your 2 best friends. if they dont at first, remind them they are doing it again. this is a habit that will be difficult for them to break, so give them time but not too much. you should invite them both together places, instead of just one so you can all get used to doing things together. if none of this works, and they dont listen to you, they are not true friends.good luck
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