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Okay recently my bestfriend Ashlee went on a trip for about a month or so to Texas to visit her sister Melinda and her husbend Robert. well one night Ashlee called me crying, saything robert had.."touched her" where he shouldnt have..and now she feels really weird and crys and shakes everytime she thinks of him or about the situation. Melinda is REALLY happy with her husbend but Ashlee doesnt know what she should do about it? Ashlee wont tell anyone, but i think she needs too, its bothering her so bad..and ya know Melinda doesnt deserve a guy that she thinks is so good to her if Roberts really something else than she thinks...what do i do about Ashlee!!?
<3 Sarah
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I'm so sorry to hear about your bestfriend but something has to be done about it. My first advice for you is to definitely listen to her because she needs a friend to be there which it already sounds like you're doing. Secondly, Ashlee needs to tell somebody. That's a hard thing to do I know but it's the best. Melinda, for starters, needs to know. I'm not sure how Melinda is going to react to the news. She might not even listen to Ashlee but at least she was warned. Also, I'm not sure how old Ashlee is but she should maybe tell her parents if she still lives with them but she needs to tell somebody. Also, Ashlee might need some counseling. It sounds like she was pretty traumatized from this situation and a counselor will definitely be there for her. That's really my only advice and I hope this helps. Just keep being there for her and just say encouraging words. She may not want to talk to anybody about the whole thing and don't push the idea but try talking to her about it and if anything when and if she is ready to tell somebody at least let her know that you are willing to be right there with her. It always helps to have a friend there. Well, good luck with this and I hope I've helped.
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