i went out with this guy 2 times a few months ago.i loved him so much and he told me he was never gunna talk to me again.little by little he started talking to me.then one night he called.after that night he kept on calling at like 12 at night.one day i went to his sisters house and i saw him there and things were so great.it was like we were going out again.but the thing is he has a gf.he said for my birthday we were gunna "mess around" but i dont want to do that unless were going out.since he has a gf,i dont know what to tell him...can you help me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? iNn0cEnCe answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 8:52 pm: gosh this guy sounds like a ass. but anyways, if you really dont wanna mess around till you guys go out, just tell him that. and if he wants to go out with you, be careful, cuz if he was willling to cheat with his gf with you, chanses are he mite do it again. if he stopped talking to you then started again, thats not a good sign. he may not be right for you because it seems like hes using you. but if hes gonna stay with his gf, then dont push it. you may have to except you guys may only be friends. cuz this is sort of like 'friends with benifits' kind of thing. its not right but i hope you make the right decision, but try to understand whats right in front of you. and be cautious. [ iNn0cEnCe's advice column | Ask iNn0cEnCe A Question ]
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