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worried things will go too far
hey i am a 13 year old female and i have been going out with this guy for about 6 months and we have made out and basically had dry sex, but ive always asked him if i could see his penis and he would always be too shy to show it. i was over at his house yesturday and i asked him if i could see it and he un-zippered his pants and almost brought it out. i wasnt sure that he would do that and now im worried that he might catch me by surprise again. im thinking that he would try to make me have sex with him, but i dont know what to expect, b/c he talks about it all the time, but im not sure what to do if he tried it. i mean i havent done and i think its too young...what should i do about it?
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Well I have too say that this isn't a light situation. I can't tell u if ur 2 young... u make ur own decisions and no one else can tell u if ur too young or not. At 13 we think 6 months in a big deal... and at out age it is. And adults are having sex probally like after 2 weeks of dating. But think about it... were 13. Do u think its gonna be worth it to give the most sacred thing u have to him when u don't know if hes gonna be there for a while... and having sex could also make things very awkward for the both of u. But both of u obviously seem very interested in playing with the idea of it... u are interested in seeing his penis and he isnt completely against it... just a little shy. And u have basically got to 3rd base and ur stealing home. So all i can say is its up 2 u... if u think ur ready to deal with the emotional strain and the responciblitly of having a sexual realtionship... then do what u want. But remember... if he pressures u... tell him to back off and maybe even dump him. As hard as that might be. HE needs to realize its ur decision. But if u do go through with it.. please make sure ur well prepared... ur both 13 and he ejacualtes and i imagine u get ur period... so be SAFE! PLEASE WEAR A CONDOM! 2 pretect urself from gettin pregnant and sexually transmitted deseases. And i know he doesn't have HIV but someone who just didn't wash all the germs off their penis can still give u a yeast infection, climidea, or gonarea. So make a smart chose... and take time to think about it. And don't just rush into it... discuss it with him first... sit down and talk about it for an hour. Discuss what is allowed and what u dont feel comfortable with. Thanx for the great question.
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