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ok i have a friend and hes pressuring me to have sex with him but i dont want to cause i like these other guys..and i dont want to do that at my age cause i dont want people to find out and call me a hoe..although everyone already does..what do i do?
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Okay, well this guy who is pressuring you, is obviously just using you for sex. If he ever says he loves you..I really don't think he means it. You see if he TRULLY loved you, he wouldnt pressure you into this. The right thing to do is to keep refusing to give in. Dont let your mind give in because that would cause a huge mistake! If he keeps pressuring you into it, then i think you should tell an older sibling, a parent(more like a mom because they can relate to us!), or a close friend. They can talk to you about this whole thing and help you sort it out. If you get really worried that this guy is going to try to well..rape you, then quickly tell a parent before he actually trys to. I really do think that you shouldnt be around this guy anymore because he could get you alone and well yeah. And since you like another guy i think you should talk to him about this if you havnt already, and make sure he's got your back on everything and always will. And dont worry when your friends are around, they always have your back! Talking about this to someone will help you get alot of this stress off your back because they can help you in soo many ways and keep you safe when you need to be. I hope any of this helps!:) ~*~kendall~*~
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