Ok, i have this friend, and today i went to the beach w/ her and a bunch of other friends, but this one in particular ignored me. She wouldn't talk to me, i went to sit alone, she didn't talk to me, went off by myself somewhere she didn't come find me or talk to me when i got back, i got mad but she wouldn't talk to me, on the bus back she laughed and wouldn't talked to me, i started crying, she still didn't talk to me, she just laughed she didn't care at all! And she always said that she cared about me, and finally she left laughing and i'm not gonna see her for a long time, what the hell should i do? It's killing me how cruel she was.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Blondie answered Friday July 2 2004, 8:43 pm: Hunny,
a true friend should not completely ignore you especially if your crying. Do you know why she wouldn't talk to you. Have you tried sitting down and talking to her about it? If not you should and find out why she wouldn't talk to you. Was she laughing at you when you were crying? If someone she was trying to impress was there than maybe she was trying to show off. Although if i were that person i would not be impressed. You should always be there for your friends especially when there crying and stuff. I hate to say this but if she's treating you like that then maybe she doesn't care as much as she says she does. If there is anyway you can contact her while she's away i.e. phone, email, letter then do it and find out why she was ignoring you. Make sure you tell her whats bothering you. You desrve better than that. Maybe she's not worth the pain but only you can decide that. In the mean time hang with some other friends and have a good time try and get your mind off of it. Hope i helped get back to me about it okay.. [ Blondie's advice column | Ask Blondie A Question ]
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