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How do I do it? Help please!!
ok, see im popular because im great with friends.. but i want one of my best friends to like me(i mean like me a lot)..ne ways.. i also want to have more friends and be in with the popular crowd. i don't want to because i feel that im not cool enough or anything like that, i just want to be friends with the popular crowd as well. So how do I do it?
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If u want 2 hang out with those ppl....den u shud just start workin ur way in. Start sitting with dem at lunch n goin 2 parties with dem n movies n stufflike dat. But if dey dunt like u den leave dem alone cuz u cud prolly find better friends den dem ne wayz. REMEMBER dunt start changing ur self u b like dem alwayz stay urself. Instead of sayin i wanna b like her cuz she cool. Say i wanna be like me cuz im cool. even without dem u r cool urself u dunt need a crowd of ppl 2 tell u dat. REMEMBER U COOl KID!..u dunt need a crowd 2 feel cool arite. if u want ur best friend 2 like u den start droppin hints n talkin 2 dem about it if dey dunt like u back den just simply say dat u dunt mind bein friends=)
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two words: BE YOURSELF. i mean, ppl should get along, juss by being theirselves!! be silly, be goofy..... being FUNNY is the keyword!! ppl always like to be around some1 who makes them laugh. but juss don't change urself to try n fit in, cuz the ppl who accept u for who u really are, those r gonna be ur TRUE FRIENDS!!! :)
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Having confidence is a very important factor in making friends. When you are confident, you feel like you can accomplish anything in life. However, I don't think being friends with the popular kids should be one of your top priorities. I think you should worry more on finding real friends that will stick with you by your side for a long time because people come and go in your life, but real friends stay by your side. If you worry too much about being friends with popular people, then you will start trying to be like them and forgetting about who you really are on the way. I don't think people should have to change themselves to please anyone. Keep being yourself and make friends who like you for who you are and who you can be yourself around.
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just get to know people like find out what their interested in and join that if its like a sport or something just talk to them dont like stalk them.you are kinda saying you arent happy with the friends you have now. it sounds like you can make friends easily and you aredithching your real friend to be populare but i kno your not just stay with the friends you have and try to get in on conversations with the people you want to become friends with. GOOD LUCK!
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Chat to a few of the people in the popular crowd and invite them round for a sleepover or to go shopping or something. But to be honest, it looks like you're only wanting to be in with the populars cause you want that friend you mentioned to like you BECAUSE you're popular. am i right? even so, get to know the people and you might make some more friends. keep me posted. :D <3
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