I was good friends w/a guy for yrs..and we had "relations" at times...when he left for school he would visit me as soon as he got to town,it was great then I met someone and my new boyfriend didn't like him so we lost contact for 5 yrs.Well i contacted him last yr telling him I've always loved him etc....and he eventually called me one day when he was in town and wanted to see me.Well since our reconnection he calls me as soon as he gets in town and we hang out and again have romantic moments.We have never discussed my letter...I know men normally freak at the Love word, so being I said that to him from a guys point of view,does it mean that he cares to since he's reconnected with me when he didn't have to knowing how I felt?Men truly baffle me!! Any insight would help!
or he keeps coming back to you because he knows how you feel and that makes you a willing partner (aka, he's using you).
Your best bet is to confront him on it - make him talk about the relationship. He'll either open up, or he'll clam up... and one way or another, things will be moving forward, or imploding.
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