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Just this guy .....
There is this guy i know , and i find him really confusing . The first time i met him , he was flirting slightly with me , by saying things like "you're very cute" and "you look older than you really are" . After this day , he became slightly colder towards me , like only saying hi and stuff . And today , he was back to being nice to me again , but not flirting . The thing is , i have a huge crush on him , and he is rumored to like this other girl , who is a year older than him . Some time ago , when i asked him while online on MSN messenger regarding whether he still has a crush on that girl , he said no . However , he is acting as though he likes her , or at least being really really friendly with her .
Usually , i am a really loud and cheerful person , but around him , i am rather shy . How can i overcome this ? What do guys think about girls - would you prefer someone gentle and soft or someone loud who acts like "one of the guys" ?
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I agree with the other responder, he may like both of you, he's just waiting to see which one is the most comfortable around him, and isn't afraid to be themeselves. You don't need to "act like one of the guys" or be loud or soft, just be what you normally are. You wouldn't want to end up being with him, and him falling for something you're not. He should like you for who you are and the way you are. Try and win him over being yourself. But I do think you should make the move, if he does like both and can't decide. Be yourself and make him choose you. I hope everything turns out alright for you!
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First off, a guy like me would never tell a girl he likes that h also likes another girl. If I had a thing for you, and you asked if I still had a crush on this other girl, I'd say I didn't even if I did. I would be afraid if you knew I had a crush on another girl, it would hurt the chances of us getting together. My point is he probably likes you, but he may still have a thing for the other girl. I think shy girls are adorable, I prefer that over "one of the guys". Don't get me wrong, I've had crushes on tomboys before, it's just shy girls are more endearing. I would find out how he feels about you, and I would do it soon. You never know how long he'll stay single. And you don't want to be bothered by the not knowing. Not knowing whether or not he felt the same way. You've probably heard that 10,000 times, but it's true.
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