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Sex
Im 16 and been with my bf for about 10 months
and we have talked about sex, the thing is when he gets aroused his penis gets quite big and im
worried that it will hurt to much because im a
little tight will it hurt? and what can we do?
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I'm pretty sure that every guys penis gets bigger when he is aroused or feeling sexually active , so no worries there .
What kind of guy is your boyfriend ?
Will he leave you once having sex with you ?
Are you sure you are willing to lose your virginity to him ? Do you love him ?
If your boyfriend is really nice and gentle , i'm sure that having sex with him wouldn't hurt much , and instead be pleasureable . Just tell him that it is your first time and you don't want to get hurt . He should understand .
Does your boyfriend have a reputation for a player ? It doesn't seem so , as you have been together for 10 months . Just make sure that he wouldn't get tired of you and leave you after taking your virginity .
How do you feel about this whole matter ? Do you WANT to lose your virginity to him ? Or are you just WILLING to lose it to him ? Both are different . To me , having sex isn't really important , but i beleive that both of you will form a bond after this . Sort of like a "i am ___'s girl" sign stuck on you .
Also , make sure you don't become pregnant , that is , unless your boyfriend is older and has a stable job and both of you are willing to look after and raise your child together . If not , just use as much protection as possible and remember to relax while doing it , as i've heard that it helps a lot . Sort of like when you use a tampon for the first time , you feel really nervous , and it takes like 10 minutes to insert it . ( according to my experiance )
Anyway , how do you know that you are tight ? Maybe the people you have compared with are loose or have had sex before . Either that , or they finger themselves alot . Most guys i know say that a "tight" girl is better anyway , so this shouldn't be much of a problem .
Goodluck , hope i've helped ,
Laura .
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