I was always a dork through middle school, and so I picked up a lot of dorky friends. Recently, I've become somewhat popular, and have picked up quite a few new (though no-less-dorky) friends. Through some weird twist of fate, my two groups of friends all happen to know each other. It really is a small world, isn't it? Anyway, I love all my friends dearly, but some of them don't get along with each other. I'd like to have a birthday party and have them all over, but I know it would be awkward since they all have different interests, and some of them don't get along. I know I shouldn't be friends with them if they don't value me enough to *try* to get along, but it may be the last chance I have to see some of them, and I'd like all of them to have a good time. Do you have any ideas on some activites I could set up to appease both my normal friends and my video-game/computer nerd friends? What could I say to my friends that don't get along? Should I have two separate parties?! None at all?!?!
Anyway, have two parties. None of my friends get along with each other either. You are lucky to have enough friends that you can have two parties. :) [ notnormal's advice column | Ask notnormal A Question ]
starminer answered Friday May 21 2004, 5:50 pm: well you should not say that you are not going to some one friend just because they are friends with some one else so that is wrong you should tell them how you feel and talk it out or try to make them friends
yours truely starminer [ starminer's advice column | Ask starminer A Question ]
Magenta answered Friday May 21 2004, 1:23 pm: First of all, do what you want at your party. You shouldn't have to appease everyone else it's your party! Do invite them all if you want them there. But have a word with each group seperately first, explain that other friends will be at the party, and that you would really appreciate it if they would try to get along just for one evening. If they are real friends they will. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.