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Hey Katie!!
I have light brown hair...but it definately doesn't look blonde. My friend...I think she is my friend....always calls me dumb blonde and says I'm bad at EVERYTHING she sees me do. My other friend...Lets call her Donna.... was talked to her and donna said that she said that the only reason that she calls me a dumb blonde and says I'm bad at everything is because she thinks I AM a really dumb blonde...(I'm not even blonde)...and that she thinks that since I'm so dumb It wont hurt my fealings and it makes her feal better about herself when she says that I'm bad at stuff. It makes me really mad!! I tryed talking to her about it and all she says is, " I dont do that." when obviously she is. I think she is the blonde 1 here but yeah. I really need advise!!!
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Thanks for asking a question in my advice column! I'd first like to say that your "friend" has no right to criticize you for everything you do. She doesn't understand that you have feelings and she most definetly needs a wake-up call. I think that it was a good thing you talked to her. Try becoming closer to her...and earning her trust even more so that you can trust her to not say anything about you. I am shure that you are not bad at everything you do...maybe she just says that because she is jealous of how good you really are! People can be that way..trust me...I have been in the situation. A good friend of mine was jealous of me all this time and I never knew until she finally told me...and we worked things out...and now things are just great in our friendship:) What she is saying about you most definetly does not make you feel good at all and it is really painful to think that your friend would do that to feel better about herself. Of course you know that she is just trying to put you down and see how much pain you can handle. Don't give in. Keep telling her how you feel, trying to resolve this issue. Also, it may help to talk to other friends and see if they can get her to change the way she thinks. I know this may be hard to do, but I know you can do it. Please let me know what happens and leave me feedback. Thanks...and please, if you have anything you want to talk to me about and get some advice, just let me know.
I wish you the best of luck gurl!
**Katie**
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