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I need advice!
Hi, my group of friends are wonderful, but one of the girls hates my guts. I don't know why and am afraid to ask. We had a fight, but forgave each other and everything was great, but one random day she started being mean to me. She always puts me down and makes me look stupid. My friends are afraid to get into it because she's the queen of our group. I don't know what to do. Should I ignore her rude and hurtful behavior towards me and only me. Or should I ask her what's wrong and risk her doing something worse? P.S. We're middle school girls, and social standing is everything.
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Heh. I remember middle school...
If I was in your shoes, I would yank her aside and ask her what's going on. Your friends shouldn't get into it anyway - it's between you and her. Point out to her that it's really hurtful, and you'd like to know why she seems to be intent on hurting your feelings. Never ignore something that hurts. Pain is a sign that something's wrong. (Emotionally as well as physically.)
If that doesn't work, contact me again and I'll try to help you more. =)
(Oh, just so you know, high school is way better as far as the social stuff goes, lol. I wasn't among the "popular" group until ninth grade. Then, all of a sudden, all the popular people liked me. It's weird.)
Good luck!
-Siren
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