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I have like the same guy for 3 years now
I have liked this guy for about 3 years.. we have been really great friends like my best friend in the whole world but everytime we go out i always end up getting hurt.. like when he "just wants to be friends" it makes me feel soo bad.. but i feel like life is not fun without him.. its sounds like the typical realtionship and i should just get over him but i cant and i dont know it i can or what i am supposed to do please help
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its really difficult getting over somebody cause it took me about 4 months to get over this boy i liked. it takes time.. try to think bad things about him and try not to think about him. try that and it will slowly go away, you will slowly start to think he's ugly. even though its your friend.........you'll live ,i bet we all go through somthing like this in a lifetime.
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Hi Same Guy . . . . Have you ever told this man your feelings? Sounds to me that you're in love with him and he doesn't even know it! He's seeing you as just a friend when you're needing more from him! He can't read your mind! Talk to him! Let him know what you're feeling! Life is taking risks and so are relationships. If he's such a great friend, he'll listen if you put your feelings out there! And, if all he wants is a friendship, then you're going to have to find some way to except it or continue to hurt! You've never know until you talk to him . . .
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I know it sounds cliché, but you should consider the age old adage, “If you love someone, you have to let them go.” Eventually, if the relationship is right, the two of you will end up together. I am currently engaged to the love of my life. I was the one treating the relationship all wrong, but he let me have my freedom to fly and my room to grow, and you know what? I did go flying back to his arms, after seven excruciating months of reality, in which many painful experiences taught me that I had been looking all over the place for what was right in front of me. You see, I am just like this guy you say you are in love with. I am not guaranteeing that he will come back, but I did, and I think you should take that chance and let him go, but never, ever stop caring about him, no matter what happens.
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