I recently got rejected by a guy that I liked, and I'm pretty much over him. He seems to think that I'm still in love with him, even though I never loved him at all. He always tries to rub in the fact that he rejected me, by talking about the girl he likes, in front of me. He'll also talk to my friends a lot when I'm around, even though he never normally talks to them. It annoys me so much! I hate the fact that he's trying to hurt me, because it's really starting to hurt! Help!
usherluva07 answered Monday May 3 2004, 7:36 pm: This guy is a total a$$! Tell him that it doesn't bother you. Or tell him you don't like him anymore. Guys can be so dumb and hurtful-don't listen to him! [ usherluva07's advice column | Ask usherluva07 A Question ]
Magenta answered Monday May 3 2004, 10:23 am: Guys are bastards, huh? All I can suggest is a glass of something sticky in the face, or a good kick up the backside. Seriously. Maybe it's time to ram the point home that you don't like him, he's making and idiot out of himself, and he needs to get over himself! Good luck, and don't feel bad. He's the idiot here. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
jdshubert answered Monday May 3 2004, 8:35 am: u need 2 go up 2 him nad tell him that u never loved him and that u r over him...u need 2 tell him that u dont like him now and the way hes acting and ingoring u that it seems like he may like u [ jdshubert's advice column | Ask jdshubert A Question ]
takingfive answered Monday May 3 2004, 12:00 am: It's a sad reality that some people are just plain jerks that deserved to be smacked. This guy is definitely one of them. Even worse, though, you're playing right into his hands. He's playing a game with you, but you're doing exactly what he wants to you do. Big jerks like him feed off of nice girls like you by attempting to rub their superiority in your face. If you let him do it, he'll just do it more. And, if he knows it bugs you, he'll do it even more. Some people have no regard for other people's feelings, and this can be especially true for teenagers who are still finding out who they are and testing out other people's limits.
So, don't let this guy get to you. Move on with your life, and if he tries to talk to you about his "crush", tell him you think that's great and wish them the best of luck together. If you can be bigger than him, it will show him just how big of a loser he's being.
JayJay answered Sunday May 2 2004, 10:15 pm: This guy just problly need alittle ajustment , Dose ur friends belive what he says?? The only way to make him stop is try talking to everyone that he has talked to and tell them the truth .
Or talk to him by just telling him to backoff or u will tell the countslure or tell the girl that he likes that hes only doing that to hurt u,or maybe he's just showing how tough he is ,or is he???
-JayJay- [ JayJay's advice column | Ask JayJay A Question ]
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