Hi my sister Thinks that I get all the attition and she's always yelling at me, When I get something really nice or something like that she yells at me and really blames everything on me but I don't get in trouble, And when ever I have a friend for a sleepover , they don't hang around with me but go around with my sis. She's only 12 years old and my friends never want to do what I do but do what she dose.... Please HELP!!! are they the right friends may I ask???
-JAYJAY-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? MichiruKaiou answered Saturday May 1 2004, 11:45 pm: It's very obvious why your sister yells at you so much. Jealousy! A lot of people get jealous of their other siblings because they seem to A) get more things, B) treated more, C) are 'better looking', etc. And your sister is obviously jealous of you, so instead of taking her yelling as hurt.. take it as a compliment!! When she yells at you she's basically saying 'YOU ARE SO LUCKY FOR <reason> I WISH I COULD BE YOU!'!
And about your friends, maybe they really aren't there for you.. but perhaps your sister? Try talking to them, ask.. no wait.. DEMAND a reason on why they'd rather be with your sister than yourself! Because you never know, they might be using you to get to spend time with your sister. So I suggest talking to them! [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
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