When I was about 6-8, I was friends with this girl. When she came over to my house or when I'd go over to hers, she;d want to play house. She always wanted me to be the dad or the boyfriend or just the guy. She'd want to kiss me and "do it" with me. We did kiss, several times. And we'd get naked and rub each other or finger each other. This comes back to haunt me all the time. How do I deal with this?
Ms_Hazel answered Wednesday April 28 2004, 9:57 am: oh don't worry little kids are often curious about the body. What they usually see on tv or catch thier parents doing. but you aren't alone i've been there done that. It used to bother me but not anymore. yall were just exploring. But if u think about it and you come to realize that u liked that kind of intimacy it could mean that you are either gay or bisexual. weather u want to be or not. you cant fight your true inner feelings and you shouldnt it isn't healthy . Just dont worry about it cause whats done is done. [ Ms_Hazel's advice column | Ask Ms_Hazel A Question ]
Henricoplyby69 answered Tuesday April 27 2004, 11:12 am: Okay you need to talk to someone about this! i am a very sexually active 17 year old now becuz i decided i didnt want any one to know. It honestly helps if you can tell ur peeps! [ Henricoplyby69's advice column | Ask Henricoplyby69 A Question ]
Winona1992 answered Monday April 26 2004, 5:56 pm: Well,if you pretended to do it, you could have been having sex...Probably no though. If you didnt want to it is rape, but if you did want to then maybe you thought it was "cool". But if you didnt want to, talk to someone! They can help. [ Winona1992's advice column | Ask Winona1992 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Monday April 26 2004, 5:53 pm: I know what you did seems crazy, and really bad, but in reality, you need to put it behind. I can just bet what you're asking yourself? "Am I gay?" Firts of all, little kids are always curious, even when they know they are doing something worng, they still do it out of curiosity. A 6-8 yr old has no idea what his or her sexual pref. is, they are just too young, and like I said CURIOUS. Please do not let you're childhood curiosity haunt you, it really isn't that bad. If you would like to talk about this further more, just send me a message. I would be happy to help you get through this.
OneMan answered Monday April 26 2004, 5:45 pm: I wish you had stated what it is about the incidents that bother you. Is it that you're now having questions of your own sexuality and that's what bothers you, or is that you KNOW what your sexuality is, are rebelling against it, and think that the earlier times may have had soemthing to do with it. I'd ask you to think long andhard about what's really bothering you about it, and then you can start to make progress toward becoming at ease with it. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
babygurl77 answered Monday April 26 2004, 4:11 pm: you just have to think about it carefully and decide wether you want to be bi or staight. Remember there is nothing wrong with bisexuals iam one. [ babygurl77's advice column | Ask babygurl77 A Question ]
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