what r some good things to talk about with a girlfreind?
Question Posted Thursday April 22 2004, 4:48 pm
i have a girlfriend and dont always know what to say to her. i need some help on things to say. shes really nice and i want to be social with her. please help me...
If you two have common ground, start with those things. Do you two like sports? Talk about gym class. Do you like movies? Talk about your favourite actresses/actors/films. Get the picture? It's only a good conversation if both of you are interested. Otherwise, silence will ensue.
If all else fails, ask her questions. Generally speaking, girls like talking about stuff. All kinds of stuff. Everything, basically. Ask her about her day/shoes/hair/house/dog/favourite colour/etc. and you will be golden for a while. Really. By the way, I just bought a new pair of shoes. Do you want to hear about them?
A conversation can only exist when it takes place between two interested people. A good chat can be characterized by equal speaking by both counterparts, and interest from both as well. If you feel that you are doing all of the work and she doesn't seem all that interested in talking to you, maybe you should find a girl who is. [ takingfive's advice column | Ask takingfive A Question ]
JayJay answered Sunday April 25 2004, 11:40 pm: Ur girlfriend just needs u , I'm a girl too and I know what she needs to be talken to about is like ur feelings for her, and how pretty she is and that she dosn't need to be afraid of u cheating on her. I'm 15 and know what I'm talking about, she would might want u to talk to her about what u like and what she likes.
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Chickaroo12 answered Sunday April 25 2004, 7:20 pm: Get her gift like perfume or some pretty clothes, and tell her how pretty she is, oh and that you love her! (duh)
toughkitty answered Saturday April 24 2004, 2:16 pm: -I have a girlfriend
Just be yourself, girls lioke it when guys talk to them about.........music, movies. You can talk to her about teh kind of cars you like, but be sure to let her talk to. Ask her questions. And don't get nervous. [ toughkitty's advice column | Ask toughkitty A Question ]
ha_ha answered Friday April 23 2004, 11:27 am: well i think you should maybe take her some where, where you don't talk like the movies and in the care ride there talk about things like how excited you are. on the way back talk about the movie! [ ha_ha's advice column | Ask ha_ha A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Thursday April 22 2004, 5:39 pm: Try finding things you two have in common. It's always easier to talk about things you both can relate to. This is also another way to find out what girls, or particularly your girl, like. Talk about music, movies, or food. A bad thing to discuss is politics and religion so leave thoses subjects alone. And making jokes (but not jokes about her) is always good too. Girls like a guy who can make them laugh. I hope this helps you. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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