I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months
and lately he wants me to touch his penis i said no he was a bit mad but im dont want go that far yet and it could lead to sex was i right in doing this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Here-To-Help answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 7:54 pm: NO! Do not do this is you're not ready...
You're a woman...you have to set boundaries for yourself. Be blunt. JUST TELL HIM YOU'RE NOT READY! He won't know if you don't tell him. If he asks you again, then just say "Not yet, Bucko". Not EXACTLY like that...but say something like that to lighten the mood. Make sure you let him know that you're not ready...if he really respects you he'll understand...
How old are you anyway???
Interaction like this is VERY serious...and it should mean something. Even if you feel you love this boy, make sure you wait until you're ready. That's most important.
Tell him the truth...
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