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My boyfriend and i have been together a long time now.(about a year and a half) I love him very very much, and i think our relationship has the makings of something that could last. we have never slept together bcuz i just dont feel comfortable and i want to remain a virgin hopefully till marriage or at least when im 21. the problem is, he is at college now and i'm still a senior in HS. His college is in a diff state. I know he loves me, but i cant help but worrying about him straying or cheating. am i wrong to feel like this? is it just a myth that all guys cheat on their girlfriends awhen then go 2 college?
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I have a friend in a similar situation, but I am bound to her to keep said situation to myself. So I will offer some generalized advice. Since she reads this column, she is not to take any of this advice directly to heart, because half of it doesn't pertain to her. :-P
Be wary, but not too smothering. Don't get extremely overprotective, because he probably still wants his independence. You are not wrong to worry about it- but if you trust him enough, it shouldn't be that huge of an issue. Not all guys cheat on their girlfriends when they go away to college, of course not! Girls are as apt to do the same thing. If you think your boyfriend is being faithful, great. If not, you have to ask him about it- don't confront him, but ease into it. I don't really have much experience on this kind of situation, but I wish you the best of luck, and I hope things go well for the two of you!
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