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Is it wrong?
HI,I AM A FEMALE AND I HAVE AN OLDER BROTHER
I HAVE KNOWN MY BROTHER 4 MY WHOLE LIFE AND AT THIS RATE I JUST AM KINDA SCARED EVER SINCE I WAS LITTLE HE WAS ALWAYS SO NICE AND NOW WE FIGHT MORE THAN EVER I TRY IGNORING HIM AND GETTING IN TO FIGHTS, BUT I JUST CAN'T IT'S 2 HARD NOW I AM OLDER AND HE IS ALMOST GOING AWAY 2 COLLEGE NOW I AM STARING 2 GET SAD I DON'T WANT HIM 2 GO AWAY AND I AM JUST TRYING 2 BE NICE BUT HE WON'T GO WITH IT IT'S JUST LIKE I DON'T WANT HIM 2 GO AWAY WITHOUT GETTING 2 KNOW HIM GREAT AND BE FRIENDS BUT WE ONLY ARE FRIENDS RARELY! AND THAT'S NOT GOOD :( :{
PLZ SOME1 WRITE BACK SO I CAN FIND A WAY 2 GET TO KNOW HIM BETTER THANX
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Dear is it wrong,I know how you feel i have a older sister who is moveng away to some state with her new husband and i feel like i hardly even know her but the best way to get through this is by talking to him and tell him how you feel and ask him to spend more time with him befor he leaves
your new friend lonsome
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Siblings fight. He probably knows that you're still his sister at the end of the day. You should probably try and get his phone number before he leaves. My mum and her brother used to fight when they were younger and they're friends now. It'll pass don't worry.
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I know how you feel, thats how me and my sister are, I am 14 and shes 16 bout to leave for collage... i didn't know what to do!! I didnt want her to leave, but then I just Needed to spend some time with her, Go out to eat with her, See some movies w/ my friends anre her and now, we are tthe best of friends! why don't you try talking to him, spend some time become friends, then you won't feel as bad when he leaves, all you will have to do when you miss him is remeber the good times you've had =)
-Kristin
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My guess is it is just a phase, it's his age. He is going away to college, becoming more independent, and wants to be an adult. He doesn't want to associate with his little sister. Give him some time, college boys can be jerks, they think they are so cool. He'll eventually grow up and become more mature.
My little sister and I hated eachother at that age too. I couldn't stand her. But we are both older now, and have our own lives, our own homes, and now she is one of my best friends.
I hope the same will be true for you.
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