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my daughter
my daughter is in love with this great guy he is in prison for something stupid he gave her a promise ring at christmas and all they got along great before he went away they were in seperatable all was in favour of a marriage or at least it looked that way problem is i heard thru his mom that he is thinking on breaking it off with her i have no idea why and it is driving me up the wall she has some idea that he is thinking and i told her that if someone else ask her out for a date go im highly upset by this because they have known each other for nine yrs and he could make her happy and she could make him happy what should i do besides kill him
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Well I suggest, though appealing as this idea may be, don't commit homicide. Not so good. Lol. You and your daughter seem to have a great relationship and seem to be very close. It's great that you two have this, but I think you need to let them handle it. How reliable is his mother? Did he actually TELL her that he was thinking of breaking it off with your daughter? If not, she may have heard wrong. Verify the facts. If they're really facts, an option would be to sit your daughter down and tell her to prepare herself. Even if she doesn't believe you, (which she might not (God knows I wouldn't believe my mom if she told me my boyfriend was about to break up with me), so be prepared for that) it will put the idea into her head, so she'll be better prepared anyway. Good luck with it all, but make sure you don't get too involved.
-Siren
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It's really, really nice that you want your daughter to be happy. But seriously, this is between your daughter and her boyfriend. You'd be better off letting them worry about it.
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Well, this is the first time I've ever come across a mother who actually *wants* her daughter to marry a guy who's in prison. But that may be beside the point.
I think it's wonderful that you're so concerned with your daughter's happiness, but it sounds like you may be a little too invested in this relationship. This is really between her and her boyfriend, and if either of them wants to break it off, you can't control their decision. It's just not up to you. You need to take a step back: you should support your daughter, and be there for her if she needs you, but you have to let things take their natural course.
I'm assuming that your daughter is an adult, by the way. If she's not, then I think it's a terrible idea for her to be committed to someone at this stage of her life anyway.
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mayb b4 u kill the guy you should talk with him or talk with his mother..and find out if its even true...if it is true you should talk to ur daughter...things like this will happen..and sometimes no matter how bad u wanna jump in and b the hero u have to juss let it happen...and help her move on...
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