Awhile back my friend Jill invited Jane to her birthday party. I didn't really like Jane at all but I didn't tell Jill or anything because she's allowed to like whoever she wants to. Now I am friends with Jane because we both play on club volleyball team together and it to Jill and my other friend Susie who don't like Jane at all. I like them all and I'm not going to ruin any friendships with anyone but what is a good way to talk to both Jane and Jill and Susie and what should I say?
sp4rklingr4in answered Wednesday March 10 2004, 10:11 pm: Let each one know how great you think the other is. There is a difference between "not liking" and "hating" someone. If your friend Susie doesn't like Jane then either try to get them to become friends or not mention them around one another. The best way that this could work out is if you could possibly all become friends. First impressions aren't always reliable. Make sure your friend Suzie is aware of this. [ sp4rklingr4in's advice column | Ask sp4rklingr4in A Question ]
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