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my mate takes EVERYTHING to heart! and she really cant take
Everytime someone says anything (even joking around) she will get all offended and go off in a strop. I told her that she takes things to seriously and she got im a mood with me. I really dont no wot 2 say 2 her now - any ideas?
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maybe it's just tht ur friend doesn't liked being joked 'everytime', too much jokes can get on your nerves and it is also really annoying sometimes, not only tht maybe she is a person who is serious about things then always making jokes at people continously and thinking tht it is really funny when it really isn't, so i think u should leave her and give her some space to feel free from wat her mood swings are and if people jokes with her make sure tht it isn't offencive or hurting her feelings or say something back to them as a joke so ur friend doesn't feel tht she is the only 1 who gets joked alot and is the targeted on only!!
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Maybe this girl has some problems that she's not telling anyone about at home or otherwise. If you want to know why she's reacting the way she is, ask her. Sit down and talk to her about it. If she says she doesn't want your help, pushes you away or gets in a mood, just back off and let her have her own space for a while. She'll come around :)
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yea, i can be like that. maybe your mate is supersensitive and has a hard time differenciating between joke and insult. nevertheless, if something is rude or hurts someone's feelings, then maybe they shouldn't even joke about it.
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