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He's so confusing!!!!!!!
I've liked this guy for a long time, and I can't tell if he likes me or not. A while ago I told him I liked him and he said he didn't want a GF at the time. I still wanted to be with him, so I managed to become his friend. We used to talk for hours online, go to the movies, and we even hung out at my house alone one time. I don't understand, what happened? Things have changed so much over the past few months. I used to think he liked me more than a friend (he was the one who showed interest in me before I even knew him). Nowadays he seems upset when he sees me. No so much annoyance, but almost sadness. I don't know, maybe I'm overanalyzing things (I do that quite often when I'm crazy about someone) but I'm positive that things have changed drastically. Now when I ask him to do things he either doesn't get back to me, or has to work. It hurts really bad because I like him so much, and I thought he liked me too. How can you just stop liking someone? I still catch him looking at me sometimes, but it's so different now. I'd appreciate any advice ya'll could give. Thanks so much!!!
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try to make him laugh and maybe someone told him something about you but he doesn't want to tell u. call him up on the phone and talk to him because the phone is always easier then see what happens. hope everything works out. can u please rate me and write back as soon as u get this
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maybe ther's another girl (or guy) that he like and your not holding his attention long enough for him to be like "well I rather be with her cause she's better" or anything. maybe this person is so much better than you that he is not even consisdering your feelings. you could try to change yourself a little aver time don't make it so drastic that he see's what's goin' on
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First of all, dear, everybody overanalyzes things when they're crazy about someone. It's great sometimes getting that fluttery and wild about a person, but it's also a challenge to your willpower. See, this may not sound PC but....relationships have a lot to do with power. The chase. The tease. Relax if you can. This is the fun part.
I'll bet the boy is scared. Relationships are so much pressure when they don't happen naturally. There's no need to try and get over him yet (and that IS hard to do, and that's for another column.) The important thing is to be LIGHT. Invite him out on little adventures you come up with. Be his friend, but be a bit of a mystery, a flirt. Don't bring up your feelings for each other. At the right time, some crazy moment you won't be able to plan for, it'll take care of itself.
Listen, do this and you have it made. Guys are scared of girls. Really, it's true. Good luck!
Vina
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Tell him what you think or feel. Might not work...but think about it. if you think it'll hurt your relationship with him, just ask him why he looks sad when he sees you.
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